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Oh dear bhagwan! I love the writing and weight loss parallels ...the shoulds and the lists ....my favourite obsessions.....I've been itching too to write on this ...but thanks to this I'm recognising the shoulds that are barriers! Keep it coming Raju..the lightness is evidently infectious

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please do write Roshni…. we need more!! PS: i want to write more stuff that draws out reactions like “oh dear bhagwan” 😁🤓♥️

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So in the middle of reading this I noticed my jaw was clenched tightly. By the end I was tearing up. Raju your words are therapeutic. Thank you

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That's everything, darling. That's more than what I would have expected... So best to not expect. ❤️❤️🪴 Sending one big hug to you.

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Thank you for writing this so beautifully, honestly. I have often thought that we can help each other with kindness - even if it means saying aloud "let us exercise together, it might help you to go for a walk and let us buy a new dress." We all have needed such prompts. I am afraid in the name of political correctness we have silenced ourselves - and slowly have absolved ourselves of responsibilities of looking out for one another. Your writing is a wake up call.

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Thank you, thank you, thank you. Such a privilege to be read by you, and with this level of attention and warmth ♥️✨

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Love your notes, love them. A shouldless life. I am repeating this to myself. Shoulds have a lot of weight. Why carry so much! And yes, we are all enough. Thank you, Raju, for reiterating it.

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ah, thank youuu Archana.. For reading it and making it your own... :) :) grateful

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I want to send this to so many people who I know need to take this pill and this journey of self-love. Beautiful words!

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Thank you, Mukta ❤️ so glad its resonated

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Raju Tai, ek workshop metaphors pr (Im sure there'll soon be demand for more). Ek class apne Substack home ko khoobsurat bananey ko, please!

Loved the piece, RT! 'I am Enough' is on my daily affirmations app lol From avoiding my workouts and yoga recently because I couldn't bear the sight of my body fat struggling in my old clothes to buying new clothes (andar se bahar tak) so I don't punish my body and deprive it of the endorphins and serotonin, I've come a long long way. Thank you for writing this and giving us the gift of lightness - from weights that we carry everyday, especially that of 'shouldness'! I've been wanting to write at least 3 important essays - I think I'll apply your mantra of 'shouldness' and allow myself to feel light when approaching my writing. Thank you, once again!

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Bilkul, Sanobar ❤️ sending love for you, your writing, and your body..

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Har type ka bojh address karne wala essay! Thank you Raju ❤️❤️

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Ah, thank you, Doel 🦚❤️

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Ordering a year's supply of this weight loss pill. To have and to distribute

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Nishi ❤️ Sending you a thousand pills, muft muft muft 🐣

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Hey, same pinch! I am on the same weight loss program! ❤️🥰

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Yay! We are onto something.. Let's shed this weight 🦢❤️

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Lovely!

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Thank you, Natasha. 🦩❤️

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Yes yes yes kweeen!

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Thank you Sana 🤓♥️✨

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Ufff! Raju 💖

I needed this today. Thank you.

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Raju! HOW LOVELY IS THIS! Its everything I needed to read today, and yesterday. Thank you for the strength and courage.

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THANK YOU Radhika. I really really jumped at your comment. Thank you for holding my words close. Sending pyaar 💜🌼

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You are being too kind, Raju, and being a good tennis player, lobbing compliments back at the complimenter (is there such a word?😆). Love reading your posts my friend ❤️🤗

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ah can play that game forever 😁🫶🏼

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I love your "beautiful heaviness' as much as watching you in flight, like the birds. Your enough is my infinite ❤️

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thank you Swaati ✨🩷 “your enough is my infinite”

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Lovely piece. Wish you happy writing and a light heart. Lots of love

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Thank you, Vasant! Need a friend like your Ktulu (did i spell it okay) in my mind more than ever ♥️🌼

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She’s there. Just call out to her. She’ll come.

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I will 💜🫶🏼

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