Extra love for using Eric Carle’s art! This essay made me pause and think. A lot. It also made me so uncomfortable. I found myself taking stock of the feelings each of your words evoked in me. Some stung, some resonated so deep it hurt, some made me smile. A good way to figure what’s to be figured. I love that your essays in this season make room for some compassionate inquiry for self. Thank you Raju Tai! Our tai for a reason :)
Raju another thought provoking, searing essay. You have brought to the fore a critical realization. It is not our gender that binds us but our collective trauma. When our energy drains, our role play ends. So much to reflect upon.
This essay sums up what I have felt for long, but never got to put in words. Your words have done the job so well.
My experiences with friendship - with men or women - has been like a bumpy trip. I rarely keep my thoughts - positive, negative, everything in between - to myself. Not sure if it is a good or a bad trait, but I have realized that the ones that survive the negative exchange, survive almost forever.
Good one Raju! A topic that we really need to talk honestly about. So much to think about in this one. Aging has helped me clear out a lot of this but reading this, I realise there is more work to be done.
"It is not our gender that binds us but our collective trauma." - Shalini says it so eloquently, elevating the sheer brilliance and potency of this essay! I am going to be thinking about this until Saturday🥰
Your words are truly amazing! Every time I read your work, I get transported to those corners of my heart where unspoken words have lingered for years. Thank you so much tai for these epiphanies.
Extra love for using Eric Carle’s art! This essay made me pause and think. A lot. It also made me so uncomfortable. I found myself taking stock of the feelings each of your words evoked in me. Some stung, some resonated so deep it hurt, some made me smile. A good way to figure what’s to be figured. I love that your essays in this season make room for some compassionate inquiry for self. Thank you Raju Tai! Our tai for a reason :)
Thank you once again, Sana. 💖💖
Raju another thought provoking, searing essay. You have brought to the fore a critical realization. It is not our gender that binds us but our collective trauma. When our energy drains, our role play ends. So much to reflect upon.
"It is not our gender that binds us but our collective trauma."
Thank you for saying this Shalini. Going to be journaling about it.
"My heart breaks when I see us trade our authenticity for attachment". this is super powerful... Uff thank you Raju:>
Thank you Gurpreet. 💖💖
This essay sums up what I have felt for long, but never got to put in words. Your words have done the job so well.
My experiences with friendship - with men or women - has been like a bumpy trip. I rarely keep my thoughts - positive, negative, everything in between - to myself. Not sure if it is a good or a bad trait, but I have realized that the ones that survive the negative exchange, survive almost forever.
Good one Raju! A topic that we really need to talk honestly about. So much to think about in this one. Aging has helped me clear out a lot of this but reading this, I realise there is more work to be done.
Thank you, Binu. It has been so good to know that age brings a lot of clarity. And for the rest, we keep writing and reading with each other. 💖
You always put new thoughts into my head. And then I realize they have always been there, only no one has written about them before!😊💗💗👏
Beautiful, thank you, that is so amazing to hear! 💖
Absolutely loved this. This perspective on friendship is so new to me, but yet somehow I resonate with it!
Thank you, Jaya. 💖
"It is not our gender that binds us but our collective trauma." - Shalini says it so eloquently, elevating the sheer brilliance and potency of this essay! I am going to be thinking about this until Saturday🥰
Thank you, Shreya. 💖
Your words are truly amazing! Every time I read your work, I get transported to those corners of my heart where unspoken words have lingered for years. Thank you so much tai for these epiphanies.
Thank you. Words like yours fuel me to keep going. 💖
Yay to the sisterhood and female friendships 💃🏽💃🏽